"....the place where we go to anger instead of love, is our wall. Any situation that pushes our buttons is a situation where we don't yet have the capacity to be unconditionally loving. It's the Holy Spirit's job to draw our attention to that, and help us move beyond that point.
Our comfort zones are the limited areas in which we find it easy to love. It's the Holy Spirit's job not to respect those comfort zones, but to bust them. We're not at the mountaintop until *any* zone is comfortable. Love isn't love until it's unconditional."
--A Return to Love by: Marianne Williamson